I am a firm believer in extracurricular activities for kids. Unfortunately, we do not all grow up on farms anymore. Teaching children responsibility and hard work does not come as naturally as it once did.
Extracurricular activities can provide a way for kids to learn these same skills, but only if parents approach it the right way. Deliberate decisions regarding kids’ extracurricular activities are crucial. Their activities cannot just revolve around what is going to make you feel good as a parent. If that is the case, it will most likely backfire and put strain on your relationship. If the point is instead to teach them how to win well and lose well, stick with a commitment, work hard, follow directions, and practice and sacrifice when other things seem more fun, then extracurricular can certainly benefit your kids. In a recent interview with USNews and World Report, I talk about some of the extra {hidden} costs of putting kids in different activities. As parents, our commitment to our children’s activities is sometimes even greater than their own. Certainly, the financial commitment can be great. The article addresses some things parents can do to be aware of the hidden costs and adjust for it.
