Most people assume that couples get divorced because they fall out of love with each other. In most cases, lack of love is not the reason for divorce. The number one cause for divorce is disconnection and growing apart.
Disconnection doesn’t happen all at once. It is a cumulation of micro-rejections – seemingly small and insignificant ways we reject each other – often unconsciously – over days, weeks, months, and years. It’s what we may refer to as the proverbial death by a thousand paper cuts.
