Most people assume that couples get divorced because they fall out of love with each other. In most cases, lack of love is not the reason for divorce. The number one cause for divorce is disconnection and growing apart. Disconnection doesn’t happen all at once. It is a cumulation of micro-rejections – seemingly small and…
In our quest for happiness and fulfillment in relationships, it’s common to assume that happy couples never face struggles or challenges. However, the reality is quite different. Healthy relationships are not immune to difficulties; they simply approach them with resilience and a commitment to growth. In every relationship, disagreements and conflicts are inevitable. Even…
This most common reason for distress in marriages is a wife longing for emotional connection from her withdrawn husband. This pattern of one partner pushing for connection and the other partner shutting down and pulling away is known as a pursue-withdraw cycle. The research tells us that 75% of couples all over the world…
Love and relationships can be both exhilarating and difficult to navigate. It’s amazing how these emotions can make us feel alive, but they can also bring us to our lowest points. We embark on this journey without any formal training, armed only with what we’ve observed from others and our own experiences. But let’s face…
In many relationships, there are individuals who naturally take on the role of pursuers. These individuals have a deep yearning for emotional connection and closeness with their partners. Unlike withdrawers who tend to suppress their needs and emotions, pursuing partners are driven to address relationship issues. They are driven by an internal belief system…
It’s important to acknowledge that the withdrawer’s actions, despite appearing distant or disengaged, often stem from a place of genuine care and concern for the relationship. Contrary to misconceptions, withdrawers typically shut down not out of indifference but because they believe that talking about the issue may only exacerbate the situation.
Ensuring Privacy, Confidentiality, and Discretion As a professional committed to privacy, confidentiality, and discretion, I recognize and understand the unique circumstances and needs of my clients, many of whom hold prominent positions in their communities or fields. I have extensive experience working with individuals who are public figures, including medical professionals, high-ranking business executives,…
Trust is a crucial component of any healthy relationship. It’s what allows us to feel safe and secure with our partner. But what happens when that trust is shattered by an affair, and the truth is slowly revealed over time? This is known as trickled disclosure, and it can have a devastating impact on a…
Those first few minutes, days, and weeks after discovering your partner’s affair can be some of the darkest moments of your life. The anger, sadness, betrayal, and fear can be overwhelming and unbearably isolating. The foundation of your marriage has crumbled, and you have no idea what to do next. It’s normal to wonder…
Emotions play an important role in your relationships as they are the driving force behind all of our actions. They can either bring you closer to your partner or they can create distance and conflict. By learning how to effectively manage your emotions, you can build a stronger bond with your partner and have a…
When a relationship is in crisis, it can feel like there are no good options. One partner may want to work things out, while the other is ready to call it quits. Discernment counseling is a type of therapy that helps couples in this situation determine whether they want to try to save their marriage…
Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it can be challenging to navigate when emotions are high. When handled poorly, conflict can lead to hurt feelings, resentment, and even the breakdown of a relationship. However, when dealt with in a healthy and productive way, conflict can actually bring couples closer together. Here are…