As one of the first therapists to offer intensive based emotionally focused couples therapy (EFT), Dr. Blackham is a leader in helping couples across the country and around the world through couples therapy retreats.
For couples who are not in crisis but desire greater intimacy and connection, an online program allows for greater flexibility and privacy as you work together in the comfort of your own home.
Micro-Rejections Erode Relationships
Most people assume that couples get divorced because they fall out of love with each other. In most cases, lack of love is not the reason for divorce. The number one cause for divorce is disconnection and growing apart. Disconnection doesn’t happen all at once. It is a cumulation of micro-rejections – seemingly small and […]
Embracing Imperfection and Growth
In our quest for happiness and fulfillment in relationships, it’s common to assume that happy couples never face struggles or challenges. However, the reality is quite different. Healthy relationships are not immune to difficulties; they simply approach them with resilience and a commitment to growth. In every relationship, disagreements and conflicts are inevitable. Even the […]
Understanding the Pursue-Withdraw Cycle
This most common reason for distress in marriages is a wife longing for emotional connection from her withdrawn husband. This pattern of one partner pushing for connection and the other partner shutting down and pulling away is known as a pursue-withdraw cycle. The research tells us that 75% of couples all over the world are […]
As a seasoned Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor, Dr. Blackham offers one-on-one and group supervision to help you learn the model and become a master clinician.
Selecting the right speaker for an event is crucial. Dr. Blackham's relationship expertise and speaking experience can elevate your event and inspire your audience to create more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.
